Anyway, I am now one of those persons that finally realized how good they are and knowing this I became a very self-confident person. Unbelievable how well this works. I got a little cocky too, so this is really a good formula to show other people how good you are, without having to utter a word.
I think I have known the perfect girl for about 4 years, but now I have my chance with her. I got to make my move. I know that this will work, and if it doesn't, I'm sure it won't be my fault.
Here are some ideas for how to DATE a great woman
First, what you not have to do.
Do not act like a wuss. Great women are used to knowing a lot of men, so they have developed ways of knowing fast who is a wuss and who can be a good prospect. Let's define wussy behaviour: Nervous, insecure, not been able to act normal because you are NERVOUS. You never met a woman like that, probably you like her a lot and that fact makes you nervous, your heart beats faster and you cannot breathe normal. What to do? You have to realize that she is only a woman, not a monster, not a lion. Just like the way you act with dogs. If you show the dog that your are afraid of it, then it will bark at you every time it can. The difference with woman is that they won't bark, but they'll just walk away. Never show them FEAR. You're giving them the POWER to do what they want to do with you.
Realize how good a person you are. You have to be so confident of you that she will see it and she'll want to be with you since "you are one of the few people that doesn't want to impress me", "you are sooo self confident and it attracts me", "you're one of the few people that don't want to desperately date me, thus you have to be really interesting since I don't make you act like a wuss. I don't have any power over you, I want to know why".
Usually do the opposite of what your feelings tell you. Never EVER tell her how much you care for her, that you're in love with her, and so on. Women are not stupid, and if you're going out with her is because: 1) You like her somehow, 2) You find her attractive and/or 3) you want to be with her and maybe develop a relationship over time. They already know this, but if you don't tell them that they won't be sure of it. And they will walk away the minute you say any of these reasons.
Act cocky and funny. To be cocky you really really have to know that you're really special and that you're EVERYTHING that that woman needs.(Never say that to her!!) And PLEASE, PLEASE, do not give away that special person you are to that girl right away, you have to make her EARN you, to make her appreciate you. That's the most important think, she'll never have to take you for granted. If you don't do this, she'll bore and walk away.
Here are some ideas for how to GET a great girlfriend:
1) Realize that attractive, intelligent, amazing women are IN DEMAND. They are RARE
2) Because these women are rare and in demand, they usually have a lot of EXPERIENCE with men. And guess what? MEN ARE VERY PREDICTABLE. Men usually ask women out, act and respond in one of a few PREDICTABLE ways after the date, etc.
3) When it comes to the unusually attractive, desirable women, they have usually had a LOT of men who have "fallen" for them "too quickly". In other words, when they meet a guy who falls for them quickly, they RECOGNIZE it instantly, and RESPOND to it by RUNNING away.
4) If you want to get one of these desirable women to consider a RELATIONSHIP with you, you need to NOT act like one of the other 100 boring guys she's gone out with.
5) You must give an unusually attractive woman SPACE. You can't call her every day, tell her that you're in love with her two days after you've met her, chase her around, always ask what she's doing, etc. You must give this special woman THE GIFT OF MISSING YOU.
6) When you're in her presence, you must not treat her like you desperately want and need her approval. There's a way to do ANYTHING and have it mean ANYTHING. Whatever you do, don't try to "impress" her, act apologetic for anything about yourself, or otherwise give away your personal POWER. EVER.
7) If you have a life, stay with it. If you don't have a life, get one. Don't sit around wondering what she's doing, calling her, telling her how you "feel", etc. If she wanted another "girlfriend", she'd get one. So don't act like one. Desirable women want men who are INDEPENDENT, and who give them SPACE. In fact, if anything, you need to give a woman like this TOO MUCH space. You want HER to be the one who is calling YOU to figure out what you're up to.
8) If you sense that this woman is "testing" you by being difficult, trying to change plans with you on short notice all the time, etc. then RELAX. Lean back. Never let her "get away" with anything just because she's beautiful, or let her have any "special privileges" because you like her. NEVER.
9) If you want a long-term relationship, let it DEVELOP over time. I personally don't think it's a good idea to even CONSIDER having a relationship with a woman until you have known her for a MINIMUM of 90 days. MINIMUM! If you take this mindset, it will FORCE you to chill out and let things develop over time, instead of trying to "force" them. You'll be VERY different from the other guys she's dated, and you'll find that SHE starts letting the "I have special feelings for you" talk slip out.
Cheers,
posted by Siramthar @ 12:33 PM
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